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Am I Unicorn Hunting?
Is everyone online telling you that you’re a Unicorn Hunter but you know you’re not? Take this short quiz to find out if they might be right.
These are very straight forward questions with simple yes or no answers. Be honest with yourself as this will give you the best opportunity to learn and grow.
1 / 5
Do you have a combined dating profile with you and your partner that says you’re looking to add someone to your relationship?
If yes, you’re definitely unicorn hunters and you’ve probably made a lot of people really uncomfortable already.
2 / 5
Are you totally comfortable with your “third” having sex with your current partner while you’re not around?
If the thought of this makes you uncomfortable, then what you’re likely actually looking for is a threesome. It is 100% totally ok to want this, but please don’t confuse your desire for a threesome with the desire of polyamory. Looking for a threesome under the guise of polyamory just looks like unicorn hunting.
3 / 5
Is a triad the only relationship structure you’re willing to consider?
Most healthy triads are built organically and unintentionally. Meaning, it starts out as dating separately and then a natural organic connection happens with the other partner at a later time. If the only relationship structure you’ll consider is a triad with a “third” then you’re definitely unicorn hunting.
4 / 5
You may start out as a triad but your “third” may lose interest in one of you. The “third” may want continue dating the other person. If you’re in the “You have to date both of us or bust” camp then you’re probably a unicorn hunter and need to do some work and should consider dating separately.
5 / 5
Are you totally comfortable with your “third” having relationships outside of yours?
If you would be uncomfortable with your “third” wanting relationships out of you two then you might be seeing that person as a possession to fulfill your desires. If that’s the case, you’re unicorn hunting. Remember, this is a human being who may have other relationships or desire other relationships outside of just you two.
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The average score is 77%
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**Please do not refer to people as a “third”
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