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Thanks Polyamory! It Has Been Fun!
I’ve been thinking… What if polyamory is just a phase for me? What if it was just a mechanism to manage my fear of commitment? A vessel for validation? Well, if you’re reading this and are thinking “I knew it!” I have to let you know that I’m not actually wondering those things. My brain […]
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Why I’m Not Down With The OPP
I’m not talking about the same OPP from the 90’s song by Naughty by Nature. I’m talking about something different. It’s something that plagues the polyamory community and is widely seen as unethical. The OPP I’m not down with is the One Penis Policy. If you want to see how this policy can cause problems […]
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3 Invasive Species in the Relationship Ecosystem
Do you remember in grade school when your science teacher told you to think of human cells like little cities? City walls, city streets, recycling plants and all that fun stuff. Ever since then I would make all kinds of comparisons to better organize and understand things. It doesn’t even surprise me a little bit […]
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Polyamory Tool Belt – 4×4 Yes Test
Here is a simple 4×4 Yes Test. Four simple rules and four simple questions. You’re not done with the test until you can answer yes to the 4 questions. If you’re checking in with your partner(s) regularly, the whole thing should take less than 10 minutes. This test leverages the power of good communication and […]
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OMG It’s Me!
Hey everyone! Lucas here. I enjoy writing down thoughts about polyamory and relationships and sharing with friends. Since they are my friends and are nice, they tell me they like the things I share. I have a handful of things I have written but haven’t edited and finalized so I will be working on those […]
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